10 quick and easy steps to help you start talking dirty today:
- Choose a paper. Simple role. The most cliche is teacher – student, but it is the easiest to start with. The second most used is sugar daddy and girland the third is Naughty girl and bad boy. Don’t tell him anything, just pick one. My favorite is Teacher Student, because it’s the EASIEST to do.
- Slow start. Drop some hints about talking dirty like “I’m going to give you homework tonight, you better be a good girl and do it” Prayed “Your sugar daddy is going to spoil his little girl tonight.” Y “Sometimes you are such a naughty girl that you need a boy to spank you.” First, she will go along with the game, almost ALL girls like RPG fantasy. Probably, at this moment, she is thinking “Oh this is going to be fun”. Go ahead and text your girl one of those lines, right now. See what she responds.
- Add a little spice. If you’re having a text conversation on the phone or a late night conversation, keep it up, especially if she’s playing along: “Did you finish your homework like a good student? Or do I need to punish you a bit?” Prayed “Are you going to dress for your dad to impress him tonight, something sexy the way he likes it, or do you need me to tell you what to wear for him?” Y “I think you behaved VERY badly tonight and you deserve a spanking.” If he responded favorably to you in step 2, this is a no brainer. If they are in the same room, say “Why don’t you come here? Good girl”
- Reinforce the positive aspects. Tell her she’s a good girl. Tell him that you like how he is obedient. Tell him that it turns you on when he listens to you. Don’t ask “YES/NO” questions when you intend to do something.“I bet you’ve been so bad you need spanking, haven’t you?”
- Intonation is important! Don’t laugh at yourself or at her. You have to keep it on a playful and serious note. If she’s hesitant to follow you or she’s shy to respond, comment on how cute it is that she’s shy, tell her she’s hot, but don’t break character. when you say things say them as if you were pretending or playing a game. You say it with the same intonation as if you were flirting but you make it sound slower and deeper. Don’t go out of your way to sound sexy. In fact, imagine yourself in “pretend earth” and you are the actor of the role you assumed in Step 1
- Add more flair to the chat. If you’re together, touch her. Don’t do this when other people are around, especially your friends. This is for YOU AND HER. So add some flair, no one is looking (yet). Touch her, but not on her boobs. If she’s a bad student, slap her on the ass, if she’s a really bad student, bend her over your knees. If it’s Sugar Baby, have her sit on your lap and trace her body with your fingers. Talk to her AS IF YOU ARE who you pretend to be. She will follow your example. If she’s a bad girl, spank her harder.
- Do not rush. Roleplaying is about playing, not rushing to the “end result” which is cumming. You want to spend three times more on the pretext than on the sex.
- Speak to their emotions instead of their logic.. Don’t explain to him what you’re doing. Bad: “I’m going to be a teacher and you’re going to be a naughty student” DO NOT do that. To assume! Suppose he is a teacher. He doesn’t start abruptly, but she gently leads her back to the paper, saying “You’re such a bad girl, if I were your teacher I’d give you a diversion…unless of course we can figure something out…;)”
- Stay in character until you get to sex. Don’t rush, like I told you, but keep up the pace. You want to be sexual but not have sex. You should be talking dirty to her in the subtext you assumed in step 1, but you should be closer to sex. If she comes down to give you a blowjob, she’s doing it to “get an A on your project” Prayed “that’s what daddy wants his sugar baby to do to please him” and if she’s a bad girl, “She needs to show what a bad girl she is to a bad boy.”
- Compliment!!! Tell him, especially after you’ve fucked, how amazing it was. Tell him how much you liked talking dirty to him. She enjoyed it as much or more than you. Tell him you want to do it again THIS WILL ULTIMATELY OPEN A FLOOD DOOR OF IDEAS!