The Proverbs explain about good manners: “Instruct a child in his way, and even when he is old he will not turn from it.”
My parents used to tell me that what you do every day or when no one sees you becomes a habit.
You can say, “Nobody’s watching anyway, so I can cheat, or just for today, I can pluck my neighbors’ roses, or I can do the job later, later, later.” Beware! The things you do wrong from time to time become bad habits, so you better do what is right and truthful all the time.
I remind my students of the golden rule: “Don’t do to others what you don’t want them to do to you.”
And don’t forget the commandments of the Holy Bible. In Matthew chapter twenty-two, the greatest commandment is to love God above all, and the second is to love your neighbor as yourself. On these two commandments hangs the whole law.
In schools, it is imperative to teach students about proper etiquette and conduct. In any type of job, it is the duty of each person to exhibit a work ethic.
Good manners and correct conduct begin with knowing how to say please, I’m sorry, thank you, ma’am, sir, excuse me, among others. These are small acts of kindness, love and humility.
Try these examples.
Please do your job immediately.
I’m sorry I couldn’t make it to your party.
Thanks for your help.
Lady, here is your book.
Sir, you have a phone call.
Sorry for being late.
Manners make things better. They help us to enjoy life, be happy and be at peace with each other. They help us behave in the best way for everyone.
Today, people with manners are rare. And because we all want to be noticed, there are times when we bully others and don’t respect their rights. We gossip, get arrogant, tease, count on chores, or lack a bit of heart to help when needed. Many of us become inconsiderate and do not forget the miracle word that is discipline. Let’s start with ourselves and choose friends carefully. Learn to say no even if everyone else is. And always remember to tell the truth and do the right thing.
When I was younger, I always remembered what the elders taught me. From mentors, parents, bosses, aunts, uncles and good friends life became easier and orderly if we lived with good manners. I also teach this to the children and adults around me.
Say please when you requested something like “I need paper”.
I asked him to say it again, please.
The student will ask again: “I need paper, please.”
“Change my diaper.”
That?
“Please change my diaper.”
Please, like sorry and thank you are magic words.
Of course, we have to pray for the guidance of the Holy Spirit so that in all things we follow God’s way.