Calling a new boyfriend in your life is a complicated matter. As always, when you start dating someone, you are not sure if that person shares your feelings. You don’t want to come out too hard and too fast. But what if the new man in your life senses that you are not interested in him if you don’t call him at all and always wait for him to call first? And what do you do if the man you just started dating sends you a text message? Should I call or text him? Should I always wait for him to initiate contact with me or should I go ahead and let him know that I am interested in seeing him?
Some men like to get some kind of signal from a woman that gives them the green light to call her. Too many times I hear from women, great date but he doesn’t call. What does it mean? The date was great, he had a great time, he laughed a lot; We kissed and then he said, I’ll call you but I don’t call. It’s been a week and I haven’t heard from him. What does it mean? Does it mean you like me? Or does it mean that he is a gamer? Do you really like me and how do I know if you really like me or just like me? Is there any way to know if he will call? And if so, when will you call?
While there are ways to predict with some precision whether or not he will call you, don’t put all your eggs in his basket. Always be sure to diversify your options when it comes to dating. Whether or not you should call him when he is not calling will depend on the dynamics of your relationship development.
The initial stages of a relationship can put a woman in chaos without knowing if the man likes her, if and when he will call. The general rule of thumb for calling into a new dating relationship is that phone calls should be balanced between you and him. As your relationship progresses and the phone calls from your new boyfriend become more and more frequent, you have nothing to worry about.
But what if your boyfriend or a new man in your life doesn’t call you as often as you want? And what happens when your man stops calling you?