Most women have always wanted to achieve this at one point or another. The ability comes quite naturally to some girls and an acquired taste for others. You must be very confident in yourself to conquer a man, and you must know what to do and what not to do.
This concept can take two very different and opposite meanings:
• Wants to kill you physically, emotionally, and financially. You want to leave it in ruins, outside in the hot sun, watching it rot and watching the vultures circling around.
• Or, a much less ominous idea, conquer, as in the abstract, win him over, steal his heart and maybe even become a little more dominant than he is (the old dream of many women).
It is probably safe to assume that this last point is the case, therefore:
make him feel good about himself
Cooking him dinner, writing the occasional love note, and maintaining erotic touches will eventually solidify for him that you love him and only him. Doing so should also prevent him from becoming emotionally detached and more than happy to be with you.
“train it”
Similar to a pet (sorry guys for the analogy), virtually all men need some level of formal training. This simply involves setting rules and guidelines for him, as well as correcting him (generally, and not obsessively, mind you) when he messes up. After all, you are “winning” him, right?
What is more likely?
You are more likely to want the advantage over your man. You want to wear the proverbial “pants” in the relationship, and there’s nothing wrong with that. Men don’t have to control everything with their ego and traditional householder mentality.
Give and take, baby, give and take
You already know that he wants, or maybe needs, things like sex and affection in general. It’s pretty typical, but you may not realize that you can use these things as leverage to get the things you want. How would you like dinner to be prepared? How about a few days of him cleaning the apartment? You know where this is going. However, use it wisely: refrain from using this tool if it is not moving for an extended period of time.
After that extended period of time and no results from our business partner, there could be real problems in your relationship.
Put your instincts to good use
Being that the male homo-sapien, throughout history, has proven to be a competitive breed; it will be natural for him to pursue you even more when you start hanging out with your friends. He’ll probably get jealous, and that’s a good thing. If he doesn’t, even a little bit, then most likely he is cheating on you or planning to leave you.
So this also kills two birds with one stone: it tests his commitment to you and makes him realize that he has to work to maintain your affections.