If your girlfriend or wife has been irritable lately and you feel like your relationship is stagnating, you may need to start questioning your attitude in this relationship. Or, you may find that it is too late to save your relationship. The first thing you should know is that little things make a big difference. One of those little things is how you treat your partner: have you been canceling outings with her? Are you late and sometimes you don’t bother to inform him? Forgot when was the last time he complimented you or made you feel special? If you’re guilty of a positive response to any of these, you may have taken it for granted. Here are some things you can do to reform your behavior and bring the spark back to your relationship.
She wants to feel special…
…Always. No matter how long you’ve been together, it doesn’t give you the license to stop appreciating her. Your partner would love to know how much you love the things they do for you and how special they are to you. A few sweet words, as long as they are meaningful and sincere, will go a long way in changing your outlook towards the relationship and ultimately saving it.
Surprise gifts
When trying to save your relationship, a surprise will always be much appreciated because it tells your partner that you really think of them and care about making them feel special. It could be something small like giving her a small unexpected gift or something more significant like surprising her with dinner at a nice restaurant. The idea is to catch her off guard, and you’ll really brighten her day.
A new place to go
You go to your favorite places every other day or every weekend, but with her mood so low, the monotony is probably already getting to her. You may be thinking that you can’t be bothered planning something new and interesting. Well do just that. How about choosing a new place to hang out, or taking a day trip next time you have a day off, or even spending the weekend away? A change of scenery and an exciting new activity that you both enjoy will create new memories and happy times, and can do wonders to save your relationship.
Do not be late!
It may seem like a small thing, but if it has become a pattern, you need to break it quickly. The last thing a woman wants is to be kept waiting, and especially a woman who feels like she’s been taking her for granted anyway. Just ten minutes could ruin your day…or will, if you’re on time.
Eventually, whatever steps you choose to take to get your girlfriend back or save your relationship towards happy times, it must be sincere. The worst thing you can do is plan something interesting for her, because you read about it in a column. It’s all about showing how much you love and respect her and it can only work, if your feelings and motivation are genuine, it will go a long way in saving your relationship.
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