Permanent Orgasm Denial It has to be one of the most common fantasies men have who crave male chastity.
At first glance, one would think that it is rare and exclusive to the most kinky extreme fetishists.
And while that is a natural and perhaps even obvious conclusion… it is also incorrect. Because for a woman to understand the attraction of any kind of male orgasm denial is quite difficult; but to wrap our heads around the idea that this is a permanent way of life, since the man is not allowed to have an orgasm. ever — it’s incomprehensible.
So when we come across the idea, and especially when it’s something we guess at, our own husband, boyfriend, or lover actually fantasies aboutwe immediately shut down and thought “must be crazy!“.
However, not only is permanent orgasm denial much, much more common than you might think right now… there are actually some very positive benefits for you. both in practice
However, the world isn’t a perfect place and there’s no such thing as free lunch, so it should come as no surprise to discover that it also has some downsides.
In my own mind, and in my husband’s mind, the pros far outweigh the cons, and permanent orgasm denial is something we are in the process of starting this practice in our marriage. We’ve been practicing very long-term orgasm denial for him for a few years now, but now we think it’s time to take the final step and make it permanent.
It is important to realize that this is not just my decision, and it is definitely not a decision that I am forcing or coercing on you. That is probably the most important lesson I can give you about male chastity. Because if you don’t really buy into that idea, it’s unlikely you’ll ever get what you want from her.
Okay, let’s look at some concrete pros and cons of permanent orgasm denial.
First, the professionals.
Tea first the benefit is by far the greatest. It’s the massive increase you get in the amount of physical and emotional intimacy you enjoy in your relationship.
A horny and aroused man is a caring and attentive man.
And if he’s emotionally mature, he’s not a bully or a pest either (some men say they want to deny orgasm, but what they really want is teasing followed by orgasm, and if they don’t get it, they get horny. If your man is like that, then I suggest you refuse to play the game).
Tea second The benefit is different than just “long term” denial with occasional orgasms, your man can fully relax into his new life.
He can be truly himself and be open and honest with you, because he knows that ingratiating himself with you won’t help. He can’t win, or whine, or whine, or coax an orgasm out of you, because he never gets one
Period. Many men love the certainty that this gives them when making love.
And the third benefit is that you can focus all your attention on making love in you. Many men tell me that the reason they crave orgasm denial is that deep down they know they aren’t fully satisfying their wives and girlfriends between the sheets. Then instinctively know that orgasm denial will help them improve this. And permanent orgasm denial simply pushes this focus and concentration to its maximum limit.
But, as I said before, not everything is a bed of roses.
So, now the cons:
Tea first The downside is that it’s hard for him. I know it’s a hot fantasy for him, but virtually every time he’s played it in his mind he’s orgasmed. If he lives with permanent orgasm denial…that won’t happen. Ever.
Tea second The downside is that it is also hard work for a woman. You can’t just “lock it up and leave it.” To make it work, he wants to be teased and brought to the point of orgasm…and then he’ll beg you to let him have one.
And you won’t.
Ever.
Once he’s calmed down he’ll be grateful, I promise.
But at that point, it’s really, really hard not to give him what he wants (and what you want too, because let’s face it, it’s nice make a man orgasm, right?).
And the third and the final drawback is that you have to work harder and be more inventive with your sex life to make sure you don’t fall back into the old boring ways, but this time without orgasms! That won’t solve anything, and in fact, it will eventually blow up in your face. Remember: chastity and orgasm denial are not the same as celibacy.
As you can see, it’s far from clear, and permanent orgasm denial isn’t right for everyone.
But if you’ve read yours and still have the desire to, then it will be more than rewarding to do your “due diligence” and learn more about the subject.