Are you in a situation here? Do you feel like you fell into a trap and can’t get out of it? You still love your ex girlfriend, but she did the weirdest thing in the world. She officially broke up with you, but she wants us to be friends. She didn’t cut off all communication with you. She still calls you and she hangs out with you as a friend.
The problem is that you don’t want that because you still have strong feelings for her and you still want her as a girlfriend.
You can’t be so sure how it feels. But you have total control over your own feelings and actions.
When a woman leaves you that doesn’t mean it’s the end of the story. Girls like to play and usually say things they don’t mean. So if you still love your ex, don’t get so down because there is still some hope.
The first thing you should do is define the relationship with your ex. If she wants us to be friends, so be it. Do not cross the border of friendship. Let her taste her own medicine. Take care of other activities. Don’t be available to her 24/7. Go out with other friends and have other hobbies and interests. Don’t let a call or text from her change your plans. If you can, just go out with her when you’re not worried or if you feel like it. Do not regain the momentum that was before the break.
As a general rule, you can go on activities with her once or twice a month. Don’t accept all of her invitations or date her all the time. Show him that you’ve moved on.
Try to get back on the dating scene. She is no longer your girlfriend and you have every right to do whatever you want. It is not necessary to start a serious long-term relationship with the first girl you meet. You just want to have fun and find a good company to spend quality time with.
A girl will not be attracted to a needy and desperate person. You have to be mature and live your days. Convince her that you are strong enough to move on and find someone else to love. Be nice to her without giving her too much interest. She will be attracted to you again and you will find her jumping back into your arms if she is really interested in you.
You have nothing to lose. You are a confident man who attracts blessings and admirers. If you played well, she will despise the day she left you.