For whatever reason, many couples stop experimenting sexually as their relationship matures. In fact, this is the best time for couples to experiment, as the added familiarity with each other’s bodies leads to great sex and massive orgasms. Try these 10 sexy tips and spice up your sex life.
1. Experiment with Girl-on-Top sex positions
A common misconception is that cowgirl is the only girl-on-top sexual position. In fact, there are plenty of sexy ideas for couples to experiment with. Try having him lean backwards, forwards, or facing away from you for some different and exciting positions.
2. Experiment with Bondage (sort of).
One misconception is that bondage is just about dark rooms and people wearing gimp masks. If you’re into that, it can be fun, but for most of us it’s best to experiment a bit. Instead of going to extremes, just use whatever is near the bed to tie it down. Clothes, sheets, and even curtains can act as restraints and give off a sexy image of getting lost in the heat of the moment.
3. Simulating threesomes
Threesomes are a common sexual fantasy for both men and women, yet women worry a lot about the possible consequences of bringing someone into the bedroom. That is why many couples like to experiment with fantasy, but without taking risks. Play your favorite scene from a movie and when you start having sex use your hands on her telling her that a third person is touching her. As long as you use your voice effectively, this can be a really sexy fantasy for women.
4. Time for food and drink foreplay
While this fantasy has appeared in every movie (you know something’s common when the Wayans brothers make a parody of it!). However, if done right, it can be a sexy way to experiment in bed. The key is to choose a range of textures and make sure one of the foods is smooth and sensual.
5. Risky sex
Adding a bit of danger will liven up the sex tremendously. In addition to risking getting caught, experiment with sex in a slightly dangerous place (like near a fall). Just make sure you don’t get carried away, a short, fine appearance won’t help any of your libidos!
6. Adopt new orgasm technology.
New technology always offers new ways to experiment sexually and one of them is ‘sexting’ (using your phone to send erotic messages). Whether you’re sending her hot texts to build anticipation between meetings or giving her a sexy reminder of a great night out, these messages heighten excitement and lust. The next time you see each other, you can look forward to some great sex and explosive orgasms.
7. Kegel exercises to control orgasm
Word has gotten out that men can have multiple orgasms too, but keep it quiet! Start training like Rocky using these exercises and you’ll soon see what everyone’s been talking about. What a champion, 10 more reps, come on!!!
8. Squirt Orgasms / Female Ejaculation Orgasms
Yes, they are possible. Yes, you can have them with your partner. Yes, they are as good for her as you have heard! She learns the technique and let her freak out tonight.
9. Multiple erogenous zone massage orgasms
Women are complicated creatures, but this doesn’t have to be a bad thing. By discovering all of her erogenous zones and stimulating them correctly, you’ll soon be able to give her orgasms she didn’t even know were possible.
10.???
Smart people will have noticed that the list only has nine entries, that’s because you have to decide what number ten is. What is your latest fantasy, something that turns you on every time you think about it and, this is the best part, how can you make it come true?