Top tips for Valentine’s Day
setting the scene
If you have kids, try hosting a night at a friend’s house. An empty house presents many possibilities! Plus, you can make as much noise as you want!
fantasies
Ask your partner if there is anything they would like you to do or try. Talk about your fantasies (you don’t have to act on them, unless you both want to!).
get in the mood
The Fifty Shades of Gray phenomenon has made erotic fiction more accessible and is a great way to get into the mood. Why not try reading or acting out a scene together? If books aren’t your thing, try sexy music or a DVD and a sensual massage with baby oil or edible massage oil. A perfect way to be adventurous and explore each other’s erogenous zones!
Food of love!
Drown your lover in cream, yogurt or even chocolate body paint then lick and suck! If you don’t like clutter in bed, try it in the shower!
thoughtful gestures
Simple things like holding hands, snuggling, and giving compliments show your partner that you find them attractive and desirable. By offering to cook, wash, or even bathe the kids, she shows that you care. Small gestures can make a big difference later in the bedroom!
Role playing game
Maybe dressing up can add a little excitement! Doctor and nurse outfits can be an ideal choice. Or maybe a sexy French maid and the lord of the manor (the feather duster is a sexy accessory!). You don’t have to wear costumes for role play. You could go glamorous and pretend to be strangers who accidentally “meet” each other in a pub or restaurant.
Lingerie
Sexy lingerie can make a woman look and feel sexier and more provocative. What man can resist the allure of stockings and suspenders? The shirts flatter any figure and are available in a variety of colors, styles and prices. It’s easy to order online and avoid the embarrassment of venturing into a lingerie department. If you’re buying for your partner, check your drawers first to check for the correct size!
It’s easy to become complacent in a long-term relationship. Don’t let this happen to you! Everyone likes to feel loved and desirable. So, in addition to a soft card and some chocolate or flowers, go the extra mile, try something new and make others smile!